Author – Counselor – Artist

Table of Contents

Personal note from Author

Dedications

Acknowledgements

Poem: “ Escape From the Pit of Despair” By Kim M. Yeager M.A. p.2

Chapter I – Today I face the Fear that has followed me all of my life…p.1

  • The worldview of a child p. 8
  • Self- Discovery Exercises p. 12
  • Self-Awareness Journal p. 13

Chapter 2 – Who am I? p. 15

  • What makes me go down into the Pit of Despair p. 16
  • Self-Discovery Exercises p. 25
  • Self-Awareness Journal p. 27

Chapter 3 – Where is God? p. 28

  • Self-Discovery Exercises p. 35
  • Self-Awareness Journal p. 37

Chapter 4 – God is Near, and He loves you p. 38

  • Seek the Lord and find Him p. 38
  • Walk with God p. 40
  • Decide to change the direction of your life p.46
  • Self-Discovery Exercises p. 49
  • Self-Awareness Journal p. 50

Chapter 5 – Self-Esteem Support p.51

  • Self-Discovery Exercises p. 57
  • Self-Awareness Journal p. 59

Chapter 6 Loss, Grief and Forgiveness p. 60

  • When the person who promises to love you forever, no longer loves you.p.60
  • What are the Stages of Grief? p.61
  • Stage One – Denial p. 61
  • Stage Two – Rage and Anger p. 63
  • Stage Three – Bargaining p. 64
  • Stage Four – Depression p.66
  • Stage Five – Acceptance p. 69
  • Forgiving yourself for grief you have caused p. 70
  • That’s when I find you p. 73
  • Self-Discovery Exercises p. 75
  • Self-Awareness Journal p. 77

Chapter 7 The Self Esteem Scripture p. 78

  • Psalms 139 – A prayer of the Faithful God p.78
  • Commentary on Scripture Psalms 79
  • The Omnipotent God p. 81
  • The God of Creation p.82
  • Self-Discovery Exercises p. 85
  • Self-Awareness Journal p. 86

Chapter 8 Self-Esteem and Aging p.88

  • Physically Aging and Self-Esteem p. 91
  • Self-Discovery Exercises p. 93
  • Self-Awareness Journal p. 94

 Chapter 9 Stress-The Enemy of Self-Esteem p. 96

  • The Social Readjustment Rating Scale p. 97
  • Self-Discovery Exercises p. 103
  • Self-Awareness Journal p. 104

Chapter 10 The Emergency Chapter p. 105

  • List of Actions to take when at the mouth of the “Pit of Despair” p. 106
  • The Empty Bucket p. 111
  • Self-Discovery Exercises p.114
  • Self-Awareness Journal p. 115

Chapter 11 Healing Self-Care p. 117

  • Self-Discovery Exercises p. 122
  • Self-Awareness Journal p. 123

Chapter 12 Reframing your Life p. 124

  • Neuro Linguistic Program p. 124
  • Take Action-Don’t Look Back p. 129
  • Self-Discovery Exercises p. 133
  • Self-Awareness Journal p.133

Bibliography p. 135

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